DZL RADIO - Coping With Rejection

The Player's Dictionary

- REJECTED -

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"Rejection is based on the timing of the offer versus current needs, wants, and preferences."

Timing and Rejection

"Rejection" can rob a person of motivation, confidence, and self-esteem.

Many of us are afraid of being what we want to be because it means we must take chances and make changes. Some of us fear what other people will think of us if engage in certain hobbies or interests.

We all have preferences, beliefs, doubts, desires, insecurities, and so forth. This is the Nature of Man. And will all of these different aspects of our intellect, there are bound to millions of different things we reject and things we accept.

Don't fear Rejection

But the essence of Rejection or Acceptance is Timing.

Timing can make or break you. It can determine whether people agree or disagree with your ideas, opinions, or beliefs. It depends on how open they are and what they believe or think at the time. At that particular moment in their life.

So, Timing can be the difference between Success and Failure.

No matter how strong your Game is, if the Timing is not right for a "connection", things won't work out in your favor. But it's extremely rare for a person to have perfect Timing everytime. That means that their life (since they were a baby) has be 100% without hiccups, or disagreements, or anyone telling him or her "no". That also means that he or she has ALWAYS gotten his or her own way without a rejection from anyone.

It's impossible to believe, but just to be on the safe side, let's just say that it is extremely rare that you'll find someone who's had a life like that.

It's hard for many people not to take Rejection personal because they feel as though they are good people and likable people and that the person that they're presenting their offer to will see it and accept them for that alone.

But, sometime people don't need what's being sold.

Sometimes, they don't understand what you're selling.

Sometimes, they're not in the position to accept or buy what's being sold.

Sometimes, they're not confident, because they don't know if you know what you're selling.

And sometimes they don't like what you're selling even if what you're selling can help them. So, they'll reject you based on their preferences.

That's just the way people are.

Sometimes, people will reject you or your offer because they don't like you.

Sometimes, they'll reject you because they doubt that what you're selling can truly benefit them.

Sometimes they'll reject you if they're suspicious of you. You may an honest guy but, if you give off a negative vibe, that may be a cause for rejection. They're just being careful. They're rejecting based on their fears.

Sometimes a person will reject you based on a passed experience that THEY had.

Sometimes they will reject you based on their perception of you.

People will reject you based on their beliefs, philosophies, or faith.

Somtimes they'll reject you because they don't like the terms.

Some people reject offers based solely on how they feel at the time. So, their mood can affect whether they accept or reject an offer.

Sometimes people reject offers and opportunities based on what OTHER people think. They may be "on the fence" about an offer and don't know whether to accept it or pass, so they get a friend's second opinion on it. Or, sometimes they KNOW what their friends would say or think and pass on the offer.

Sometimes a person's presentation of his offer or argument can be his downfall. If he's weak, clumsy, confused, or misleading, his offer or argument may be rejected.

We're trying to get another person to follow, buy, agree, or accept our offer, idea, opinion, advances, or proposition.

People will reject anything from relationships, marriage, and dates, to used car offers, peace treaties, and lawn service.

Sometimes they'll reject you because of rumors, hearsay, or gossip.

Sometimes they'll reject you because they believe they will get better "benefits" elsewhere.

Sometimes people will reject you if they don't have confidence in how you feel about them. They may have low self-esteem and not sure about themselves. But this lies with the trust they have in you. If they trust that you are going to honor your words and do what you say you're going to do, then he or she will be more apt to trust you.

"Rejection" can rob a person of motivation, confidence, and self-esteem.