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Mixing and Mingling 101

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"Don't Let Shyness or Depression Stop You
From Getting The Most Out Of Life."

Notes - Communication/Social Interaction

There is nothing worse than drifting through life and not knowing how to enjoy it because you're not sure of what you want or how to get it if you did.
There are many uppity Players in The Game, riding high on their high-horse and living high on the hog, who don't understand this...
They believe each man and woman is capable of solving his or her own problems - financial or otherwise - without help. They don't want to acknowledge the fact that many young players need guidance, training, direction, information, motivation, and encouragement.
Many more need a mentor who is honest, reliable, and trustworthy in their corner to offer positive affirmations and good advice based on experience and knowledge.
Some young players simply need a helping hand to get the ball rollin'. They only need to know how or where to start.

This may come easy to some Dons and Divas in The Game because of their influences, environment, upbringing, grooming, or discipline.
But everyone isn't as fortunate - for whatever reason.

For those who don't have guidance, role models, or mentors, Life can be a struggle and a living hell.
It can be mentally and emotionally exhausting and frustrating, which can lead to bad decisions, confusion, indecisiveness, anxiety, and ultimately, Depression.

It can also bring on Fear, Phobias, Addictions, and Hopelessness.

Many of us are afraid of being what we want to be because it means we must take chances and make changes. A few of us are willing, but many are still "stuck in the gates", not sure of what to do, and falling by the wayside because we are not making moves but waiting for something to happen.
But, Aspiring Dons and Divas can't be afraid of making moves!
We must all stand in the spotlight sometime!
We must engage, socialize, interact, mix and mingle, network, and show some love from time to time, so marinating in Fear is not the best option...

If we want to get the most out of Life, our greatest assets and weapons will be our ability to communicate and socialize.
We don't have to be charismatic, outgoing, or the life of the party!
We just need to be able to interact with our family and friends.
We need to be able to get our point across so that we are understood.
We need to improve our confidence.
We need to be able to tell people what we want when we want it.
We need to be able to keep people interested when we have something we'd like to say.
Good conversation and communication skills can help us do this and they will help us enjoy Life a whole lot more.

"Elevate Your Mind, Body, and Soul..."

Fight Depression!

Depression - Things That Cause Depression

Depression - Fight Back Against Bad Luck!

Depression - Grieving Over The Loss Of A Loved One

Depression - "How Can I Go Back To The Way I Was Before?"

Depression - Why Do I Feel Under Pressure All The Time?


* Original definition from DZL MEDIA's "Promise Of Devotion" Series. (Copyright 2007)

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