CappaDon - The Player's Lifestyle!

"Behind every Great Man there is an Exceptional Woman - a Grand Diva. On the side of Exceptional Woman there is a Good Man - An Outstanding True Player in The Game."

Only a strong woman can handle The Ultimate Hustler - The CappaDon or "CappaDonna". She can go far in life with a guy like this on her side. A man who is willing to be faithful and handle his business. He can be the right Player to have on her team, but she must make sure he is pampered, babied, and well satisfied if she is to keep him.

If treated well, He will be proud of her, admire her, hustle hard for her, and work like a dog to make sure she is well taken care of. But she must be Driven, Assertive, and Qualified to handle her business without being pushed around.

His first love is money unless his heart has been captivated by a sensuous vixen. She must be a passionate woman - a spitfire. His second love is "the game". He's a Hustler and loves the "Fast Lane". But he's always about Business before Pleasure. He likes "wheeling and dealing", making moves, and being "in the mix" - Negotiating and "Gambling" - betting against "the game", the Players, and the odds.

He would make a good Boss for a strong CappaDonnas or a woman that won't back down and let him run all over her. But she must be a smart woman who is good with finances and willing to help him move up in life. She has to be wise with money because he will blow it on junk, shopping sprees, trying to spoil her, and splurging. And, the woman who allows him to do this will be his downfall in life. He'll spoil a woman with money, favors, and gifts - trickin' because she's beautiful. And a Good Woman who wants to help him achieve should use this to THEIR advantage. Let The Hustler bring in the bread while you stack it! Don't get caught-up in a frenzy of over-spending and over-extending your pimpin'! Hang on to some of that bread so when it's time to move to the Next Level, you'll be ready with plenty of Cash to invest!

* Women who have elevated in Life and have acquired material possessions should be wary of the CappaDonna as well as "romantic players". They are not the same. One hustles for money, necessities, and favors, while the other hustles for "friendship" and sex. But one will use sex to advance his personal agendas while the other keeps score of how many women he sleeps with. Therefore a CappaDon is given to manipulation and often, mercenary pimpin'.

Many men who are CappaDons will admire a Diva for her talents, beauty, and sex-appeal, but rarely are they completely satisfied with one woman. A CappaDonna IS a BadBoy whose weakness is beautiful women! So, first and foremost: make sure you have Chemistry and Understanding about the relationship. Let him know what you're about and what you expect out of a Boss Player. Leave no gaps or loopholes!

Only a CappaDonnas or a woman of bold character can handle him and keep him satisfied. He will abuse and run all over a weak or "needy" woman. Therefore, timid women (doormats and approval-seeking women) should not expect a solid relationship. But, she must not be too bold as to add drama and stress to his life. A nagging woman is a treacherous woman! And, he will abandon or cheat on her as well.

He's a man of adventure and lives by his own rules. Therefore, a Diva must use tact and charm to seduce him and conquer his stubborn ways. He won't change just because she wants him to.

When it comes to his fantasies and addictions, he is selfish and will more than likely put his girl on the back-burner. His work may come before her if she is not involved.

She must be able to visualize his dreams, but they must be HER dreams also. Furthermore, she must let him know where she stands and that she has additions to the dream and what HER plans for their future are once the ball gets rolling. He likes that. He wants a woman that is assertive, believes in him, and knows in her heart that they can accomplish their Goals. He wants a woman with a positive outlook and faith in his Game. But, she must also have confidence and faith in her Game.

As long as the Diva or CappaDonnas is a driven woman that can help him stay motivated and help him get back up if ever he should fall down, she's a "keeper". So, she must also be a go-getter and have brains, courage, and a back-up plan ready in case of hard times. This is her "test" to "prove her loyalty and appreciation" of him for "all that he has done for her".

Furthermore, she must be able to represent Class, Style, and Grace. She must have sex-appeal - even if she ain't the prettiest "Peach" on the block.

One all-around "Bad Bitch" is worth more than a hundred "average" chicks (or "Show-Girls") any day!

She can't be a hoodrat without goals or a scrub with no purpose in life. He wants her to be happy with her own interests as well. He doesn't want a robot or handmaid that he can't respect. A woman like this can't give him the "push" and "drive" he needs to be successful - and he will treat her like shit.

He will run all over a timid woman because he likes to be in charge. He likes to be the Boss. But he is also willing to share the Throne with a "True Soldier" - a "Ride or Die" Chick. A woman who is "down for the Cause" and handling her business. So, if he meets a bold woman that is not afraid of him and willing to stand up to him while she is yet making moves so that they both can live good, then he will yield to that woman.

But, she must always assure him that she's loyal and has his back because he rarely trusts anyone. Telling him won't be enough. The woman must be uninhibited and expressive in many ways and SHOW him that she is a "down-ass" chick.

Then he will consider her his Equal and his only True Queen. And, SHE'LL have a Boss who is Certified and Qualified to be in her Stable.

"YOUR GATEWAY TO THE GOOD LIFE."