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Cheaters, Players, and Pimps

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"To all of the Aspiring Dons and Divas - and even True Players looking for that ONE TRUE CAPPADONNA BOSS PLAYER for your Stable - be wise with Love, and TAKE YOUR TIME to make sure your Prospect is well Qualified."

 
"Qualifying Your Team"

Let's get one thing straight.
 
It's not necessary for a Player to have a "partner in crime" on his or her side to become successful. As long as you have good resources, the proper tools, a strong mind, and good Game, you can make it to the Top.
 
BUT...
 
You will have to work twice as hard and depend on tricks, associates, and other Players in the game to help you.

Even these people must be pre-Qualified by you to make sure they are capable and meet your standards. You don't want soldiers on your team who are scrubs and losers or else you're gonna have a weak team.
 
But most important, you don't want to have Players and Associates on your team who are haters or con-artists in disguise. They'll back-stab you and try to cheat you out of your riches and your quest for The Good Life.

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"Why Men and Women Cheat"

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Excellent In Skills; To Have Jedi-like Skills

 
 
As long as you have good resources, the proper tools, a strong mind, and good Game, you can make it to the Top.
 
BUT...
 
With a Loyal Companion at your side, the rise to the Top will be easier.
 
But you must choose wisely - with your head as well as your heart.
 
 without a sidekick on your team, you have to work twice as your quest for The Good Life will always involve other people. You can't make a profit by selling things to yourself. Neither can one person do all of the work by him or herself. Everyone needs Resources and Prospects - people to help move your product, event, idea, or service, and people to buy from you.

 
"Mind-Games People Play"

Question

GUYS ONLY...if you are a playa or were a playa would you...?

what are things you will tell a girl to in order to fool her
how long would you spend having a conversation with the girl
what wouldnt you say, so that she doesent catch you out
what is the minimum time frame you would bother trying to fool her..eg 3 weeks? 3 months?
when do you know the girl is completely fooled by everything you have told her?

Additional Details

i would like to inform people that i am a 21 year old female, basically i wanna know what goes inside a guys mind so i wont get played again!!

3 days ago

Playas out there have all types of tricks - depending on the playa, the the guy (or girl), and the situation, so your first concern should be "What does he want from me?"

Playas out there have all types of tricks - depending on the playa, the the guy (or girl), and the situation. So, he do and say almost anything depending on what he really wants from her (or you) and how bad he wants it.

The ONE CAUTION I would give you is this:
 
Playas and Good Men do these things, so only experience, time, and getting to know the person will really tell you who is a potential playa and who is a keeper. JUST TAKE YOUR TIME AND USE GOOD JUDGEMENT!

- compliments and flattery
- come to her rescue when she is feeling depressed
- be a friend when she is having problems in her current relationship
- be a friend when she needs someone to talk to or lean on for emotional support
- let her get drunk or help her get drunk
- be funny and make her laugh so that she will drop her guards and him more
- be on her side when she has disputes with friends
- give her advice about relationships

Will add more later.

Playas out there have all types of tricks - depending on the playa, the the guy (or girl), and the situation. So, he will do and say almost anything depending on what he really wants from her (or you) and how bad he wants it.
 
The ONE CAUTION I would give you is this:
Playas and Good Men do these things, so only experience, time, and getting to know the person will really tell you who is a potential playa and who is a keeper. JUST TAKE YOUR TIME AND USE GOOD JUDGEMENT!
 
"what are things you will tell a girl to in order to fool her"
- compliments and flattery
- come to her rescue when she is feeling depressed
- be a friend when she is having problems in her current relationship
- be a friend when she needs someone to talk to or lean on for emotional support
- let her get drunk or help her get drunk
- be funny and make her laugh so that she will drop her guards and him more
- be on her side when she has disputes with friends
- give her advice about relationships
 
...and dozens of other things.
 
How long will he have a conversation? As long as it takes. There's no real time limit, BUT... If he "plays" a lot of girls, then he can't stay on the phone with one too long at one time. He may have to talk in spurts - a phone call here; a phone call there.
 
The only things he WOULDN'T say, are things that he feel might be too vulgar or indicate that he is lame. Although some guys use sympathy to try and catch a chick. And of course, he wouldn't mention that he is a "playa" or a "balla" or a "pimp" or that he is still communicating with his "Ex". Some playas won't tell you that they are married or have a baby-mama, although mentioning that they date is okay for most. They won't mind telling you that they date because they want to let the girl know that they have "options" and that they don't have a problem meeting women.
 
What is the minimum time frame? It depends on what the guy wants, how bad he wants it, his "other options" (if he has any other girls "on the side" or "on the list"), and if the girl is hot enough to waste time on.
 
The girl is fooled when she can't stop calling, starts sweet-talking him, or always wants to see him. (She may even think she's in love with the guy.)
 
But this is just the tip of the iceberg! There are some books and websites out there that will tell you a lot of what you want to know about pick-up artists, cheaters, and flirters, but you have to research.

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Are guys intimidated by me?

I am a tall girl with a curvy body. I am not trying to sound cocky, but I do get attention pretty much anywhere I go. I don't ask for the attention, but it just happens. I am known for a being a really fun, chill, laid back girl to talk/hang out with. The only problem that I have is with guys. It seems when guys meet me they show a lot of interest in wanting to get to know me. I don't like many people, but when they show interest in me and it clicks, then I like them. They will show interest in me for a while and just either disapear or show that they like someone else. I tend to look like one of those girls who gets around, but I don't. I don't just sleep with whoever I want or whatever. I am just confused that guys don't want to be with me, because they are intimidated by me or cause I won't put out. Maybe they think I am too independent or have too much of a head on my shoulders. I don't know I am really confused, cause this has happened a few times already.

There are MANY people who believe that ALL men are attracted to outgoing hot sexy women simply because they hope those type of women will "put out". But that's not always the case.
 
Those same people forget that SOMETIMES (not all the time, because the world is full of "dawgs") our interest in a person doesn't always transfer into liking that person.
 
And this is one of the reasons why some men (and women) cheat. Those guys may be interested in you because of your looks, but after they get to know you, they find that you are "different" from what you appeared to be.
 
Intimidation may not have anything to do with it. It may be disgust.

 
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